Following are key findings which will help to develop Success attitude for longer lasting success;
Expect the best :
What does happen ? when you receive any unexpected call at mid night from your boss’s number or office number , we usually thought “ Allah Khair Karay” , negative things come first rather positive one , So always expect for best in order to build success attitude. Whether you are going for giving an interview or to open the letter or email expect the best results. When you will expecting the best for everything believe me best will happen with you. It will become your habit and habit strongly determine our attitude.
Make an habit for positivity:
For developing a success attitude ,you should make the it your habit that you will see the positive side of picture and remain positive. If you want to test that whether it has been became your habit then you have to go to any speedy Road & drive your car with normal speed. when somebody starting continuous horn at your car from back side ,though there would be a lot of space for one to take over your car from other lane but still one is persisting you to give a way , at that moment if you don’t mind it and let him go at your track without any grudges or silent abuse then understand that you have developed the success attitude.Repetition of positive affirmations:
It is one of the most vital thing in order to develop a success attitude, whenever you have got free time or at bed before sleep or in the morning in the front of mirror just repeat the positive affirmations , these affirmations belong to your objective , Goal and weaknesses. You can put you objective or goal as your PC password as well like “ I am reducing my weight”, “ I am wealthy”,” I speak English Fluently”, “I am …….so on. When your brain accept your positive affirmations through repetition then it will become your attitude
Do Smile:
Every part of body has its own exercises and Smile is the best exercise for our face. When we smile maximum number of muscles works than frowning and it is fact smile diminish the wrinkles & frowning make it permanent at our face. It is necessary for having success attitude that you must have victorious smile at your face. Not only it will reduce down your tension & normalize the blood pressure but also it will compliment your sense of humor , all successful people carried the great sense of humor with themselves.
Do not burden the others:
It is saying that share the worry , it will halve and share the joy, it will double. So we must share our worries & tension with our partners, spouse and friends but do not burden them due to our worries. Figure out the solutions for every challenge at your own it will strengthen your success attitude because if you will start burden them then for your challenges then gradually you brain will start look for others to have a comfort zone in any challenging situation.
Do one thing positive in a day:
Try to do one thing positive every day , it may include give the right way to any stranger, help children and senior citizens in crossing roads, give lifts to those who are seeking for it, do charity etc. Any positive deed after that you feel good for yourself.
Avoid negative thoughts:
Your brain is like a empty box now it’s up to you whether you will fill it garbage to make it Dustbin or with flower to turn it out into garden. We should keep away from violent news programs, Horror films or any stuff which will emerge negative thoughts. I still remember those times when initially we had PTV news bulletin only before having cables at home, but now “News bulletin” turn into “Bad News Bulletin”. Avoid all negative thoughts & replace by positive one.
Be honest:
Honest people not only having an high self image & attitude but also they have a immense say in their social circles, always be honest in every case. Old saying “ Honesty is the Best Policy”. Never compromise on your honesty because it determines your integrity & trustworthiness.
Remain Enthusiastic:
Keep Enthusiastic and passionate about your deeds & goals , somebody is naturally enthusiastic but it can be attain by practice as well by effective use of Body language & Proper tone frequency . Enthusiasm is work as fuel for developing & retaining the success attitude in oneself. It keeps motivated the person to get one Goals.
“Challenge” not “Problem”
Torn out the word “ Problem” from your life’s dictionary ,because when Problem word use then brain make the image of poor, Perplexed, Bechara Person’s Picture. So for having a successful attitude we must use word challenge in place of Problem when we use word challenge then our brain make the image of Soldier and fighter. Now we don’t have a problems in our life anymore but there are challenges and we must get Success by overcoming the challenges .
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