Don't Try To Defeat ... Try to Win!!!

Why do we think to cut down our expenses rather think about increasing our income? Similarly 80 % of the people always think about the minor or negative perspective first .Before starting anything people usually think about the failure or the negative perspective rather than thinking how can they avoid failure? And because of the fear of failure they never start a new project or business with the thought of success or win and somebody else does the same thing as they thought and win the reward. And this happens for so small things in life; For e.g. when we do receive a call at mid-night, why we start getting negative thoughts first. It is maybe naturally we are prone to go negative at first and maybe positive later.

Why do we try to defeat people and not win or rather think to win them? We have a supersonic computer given by God which is swiftest than an any other machine or computer in the universe, it is our brain. The belief or the invincible affirmation that you will give to your brain, your brain will derive your attitude, actions & behaviors derive accordingly. We should expect the best and we should keep practicing this habit. Because repetition is the mother of skill. We have to plug our brain with positivity and invincible affirmations so that positive vibes can be generated through it, for that reason there is a need to align our eyes & brain, so that synchronization can be created. It is limited to us that what we observe, I am not talking about see the things as they are because seeing the things is not deliberate part but what we observe through our eyes is a deliberate part and it stores in our brain . Our eyes & brain is like an empty box; we can make it dustbin by accumulating garbage and can make it a vase by accumulating flowers .So we should always try to win people by our actions, thoughts, gesture & posture. When we will always think about winning them, then our brain will derive our actions as a winner. We should not think about others defeat or to defeat someone but we should omit the word defeat from our life’s dictionary. One can sum up his life way out by just applying a simple formula that is “Never Try to Defeat, Try to Win” and you may see miracles happening.

By : Syed Shahzad Ali
HR Expert