A simple definition of a person's self-image is their answer to this question - "What do you believe people think about you?".There are chronic tips to get an ultimate success by developing a strong self image .
No More Excuses :
Stop furnish excuses for failures , blame others & Bad Luck etc. Well there is no failure or success but results are there . For unsatisfactory results we get experiences & from satisfactory / expected results we get Achievements. We usually figure out reasons from unsatisfactory results for the outer world in the shape of lame excuses but it really hurts our self image badly. There are result no failure or success , this is we who interpret results as Success or Failure.
Pride in Yourself:
Self pride is the sense of your worth & value as a person in your own eyes. It is about how much do you like yourself? Because until & Unless you will not have pride in yourself then nobody will have proud on you . Value yourself as much high much you can . You should have a pride at your family , on your school , College university , Organization because if you will not value your institution or organization then nobody else will value it , develop an extreme pride for yourself .
Take care of your Appearance :
Especial care should be given to you appearance & wardrobe . You should adopt your appearance as you would like to be as a Successful Person i.e. visualize your attire what you will put on once you will achieve your goal and become successful , there is saying that you should wear clothes at your current job which is requirement of your next job – dressed yourself for next job or role .
Keep Yourself in Good Shape:
You must do some physical exercises to keep yourself in a good shape & remain physically fit , because if you will be doing physical exercises then your brain will be getting more oxygen & blood circulation . You will not only enjoy your dressing but also you will feel good about yourself & feel more confident , which will ultimately emerge a positive self image which is a key for success.
Select what you allow to go into your brain:
You have a most precious asset with you “The Brain” ; use it in proper manner & positive manner for that you have to set filter over the things i.e. only positive things should be allowed to go into your brain. What happen, when you throw garbage in a empty box ,eventually it will become a trash box and only rubbish & nonsense things would be coming out of it. Same is the case with Brain if negative & cynical things would be placing into brain , it will depict on yourself image and it is an impossible thing to get an ultimate success with negative self-image.
Believe in yourself – you Can:
You can do anything but not everything , you must have a definitive confidence on yourself that you can do anything. If you will be hesitated or if you will not believe in yourself then believe me you can’t accomplished your desire task as you want . Have you ever observed the Horse who jumps over the Obstacles very easily . How does he Jump ? actually he builds a telepathic relationship with rider’s brain & heart, due to the self believe of rider ,he catches the signal of can do attitude, if rider will hesitate & doubtful , horse will never going to jump over the obstacle ,. It is necessary to have a firm believe in yourself & can do attitude to get an ultimate success.
No fear to Mistake :
The person who does nothing , he does not make mistakes and eventually does not get success. We should not have any sort of fear about mistake and errors , we just keep on working towards our goal of success. Research shows when its been asked to successful entrepreneurs that “what is a Key to success? Nearly all replied in a same manner , they just keep forward & taking steps towards their destiny , most of the time they made lot of faults and mistakes but the credence of right step supersede the all effects of such mistakes . Just keep moving ahead , mistake is nothing its a experience and another way of doing the right thingPositive Statements:
It is very vital for emerging a positive & strong self image that you must be making positive statements and using it in your daily life . There are some definite tips hat say to yourself “ you can do” , “ Do it now” , “ I am master of this thing” , I have all the potential to get success” before starting any task . “I am the most confident & successful person on the universe” paste it on your car’s dash board , on your motor bike speed meter , in your wash room where you usually brush your teeth & wash your face. Daily in the morning & in night when you go to bed for sleep , just repeat those words which is your weakness i.e. “I am good at English” or “I can face the audience very easily” etc. It will boost your confidence & you can overcome your weaknesses.
Check your Environment:
There is very famous saying that “ the person is been knowing by his friends’ company” , if you want to build your positive self image then you must join the company of those people who would be full of enthusiasm , Positivity , energy , Zeal. Check your environment before joining any company and avoid negative & pessimistic environment .
Do Some Charity Work:
It is very necessary for emerging a positive self image, self respect & self esteem that you must do some sort of charity work . Help others to accomplished their tasks . It will emerge the sense of achievement which will reflect on yourself image .
Compile a Success Record:
Maintain a file or scrap book to compile success record it may include you school report cards , certification of achievement , your first offer letter , appointment letter , confirmation letter, Snaps , anything which you value most include it . Go though it periodically & get the sense of success & achievement , share it with your family members , friends & colleagues etc.
